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Why Public Speaking Kicks Your Stagnation in the Teeth
Andy Wergedal
June 12, 2025
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You’re stuck because you hide. Public speaking drags you into the light. It’s not about polished words or perfect slides. Its raw exposure. You stand alone, every eye on you. That pressure builds authority faster than any blog post or corner office. When you speak, people listen, and they see you as the one who knows. You’re not just another professional. You become the voice that cuts through the noise. Master this, and you stop being invisible.
Stop Whining and Start Preparing
Nobody cares if you feel nervous. Everyone does. The difference is preparation. Know your material cold. Practice until your voice stays steady. Record yourself, watch the playback, and fix what sucks. Your audience isn’t your therapist. They want value, not your excuses. Research your crowd, tailor your message, and deliver it with conviction. Authority comes from showing up prepared, not from hoping you don’t crash and burn.
Command the Stage Like You Own It
Don’t fidget with notes or mumble apologies. Walk up, stand tall, and claim the space. Your voice should fill the room. Pause when it counts. Let silence land hard. Eye contact is mandatory. Pick a face, hold it, then shift to another. You’re not asking for attention. You’re demanding it. Every gesture, every word, screams you belong there. That confidence lingers with people long after you step down.
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Turn One Talk into a Legacy
One speech isn’t enough. Record it, edit it, and spread it across platforms. That single talk becomes clips, posts, and proof you know your stuff. People who weren’t there start hearing your name. You’re not just a speaker now. You’re a brand. Keep speaking, keep sharing, keep showing up. Authority isn’t built in a day. It’s built every time you open your mouth and prove you have something worth hearing.
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